Kourtney Kardashian Barker has ignited a fresh buzz by bringing the intriguing concept of “autosexuality” into the spotlight—thanks to her lifestyle brand, Poosh, diving deep into the topic on its platform. This fascinating idea, all about being attracted to and inspired by one’s own self-image and sensuality, first appeared in a 2020 Poosh article that has fans buzzing anew. Now, many are wondering if Kourtney is subtly hinting at a personal connection to this bold, self-loving mindset.
The article opens with a provocative question: “Are you autosexual?” — before immediately suggesting, “Chances are, yes. In fact, most of us are, at least to some degree.” But what does autosexuality really mean? To shed light, Poosh turned to Casey Tanner, founder of QueerSexTherapy, who describes autosexuality as “a trait where someone becomes aroused by connecting with their own erotic self.” Tanner highlights that when people see themselves as attractive, they often feel more sexually alive and confident. While autosexuality looks different for everyone, it frequently involves a powerful sense of self-appreciation that can boost self-esteem—and even deepen personal relationships.
According to Tanner, autosexuality can show up in simple yet powerful ways—like catching your own reflection and feeling genuinely attractive, or dressing up just to please yourself rather than anyone else. For some, it goes deeper: imagining themselves in intimate ways or even savoring their own scent to spark desire. Tanner emphasizes that everyday self-care rituals—wearing lingerie purely to feel good, or dancing alone in front of the mirror—are all beautiful expressions of autosexuality. What many don’t realize is that these moments of self-connection, especially when experienced solo, are perfectly natural and can actually enrich your sex life instead of competing with it.
Interestingly, the article also addresses the stigma that often surrounds autosexuality—many hesitate to own it, worried they might come across as self-absorbed or overly focused on their appearance. But Tanner flips the narrative, insisting that embracing autosexuality can actually deepen one’s relationship with themselves and their partner by building genuine self-confidence and comfort in their own skin.
Kourtney Kardashian Barker, who tied the knot with blink-182’s Travis Barker last year, is no stranger to challenging norms and owning her distinctive style. Just last month, the celebrity couple stirred controversy with a Halloween display featuring skeletons in provocative poses—an edgy choice that divided online opinion. Comments ranged from, “That skeleton position? Really?” to, “You have kids, and you think this is appropriate? Tacky.” True to form, Kourtney continues to push boundaries, sparking conversations that go beyond the surface.
The couple, who welcomed their son Rocky earlier this year, are famously open about their affection, never shying away from PDA and boldly living life on their own terms. Whether Kourtney meant the Poosh article as a glimpse into her personal journey or simply a way to educate fans about autosexuality, one thing is clear: the Kardashian-Barker duo knows how to keep the spotlight—and the conversation—alive and buzzing.
